Dollhouse Rock: The Gift of Your Untold Story

Sometimes loss of innocence doesn't happen all at once. There are different moments, different markers. Picture them as buoys in the oceanic memory. They bob up at different times, depending on the wind, and the waves. Sometimes this season is all about buoys. Every...

Holy Terrors! Why Finding Your Voice Will Unleash Your Success

  Holy Terrors! This was the name of the Episcopal church volleyball team I played on after high school in Sylacauga, Alabama. Population 10,000 -- with over a hundred churches. Jim Nabors's home town. Remember "The Andy Griffith Show"? Golly! I chose the name....

Manhunting in Tahiti, or, How To Find Your Why

"In Bora Bora, even the fish look like sperm." The year is 2006. I travel to Tahiti with my writer friend -- let us call her Beth -- she to get a tattoo, me to find a sperm donor.  Beth is shaken and sad, recovering from an abortion. She is young, her current...